Liam
Grant, like all his family, has a reputation for being friendly, neighbourly,
and a lively storyteller. He didn't disappoint me. Liam had a cordial
welcome for me and that annoying little dictaphone, which he took
to like a professional, speaking clearly and distinctly, and only
pausing to warn me that he was about to enter into a bit of mutual
family history that I might like to censor. Not for a second was I
made to feel uncomfortable as I interrupted the daily routine to chat
to Liam, his sister-in-law Delia and - when he could spare the time
-his brother Paddy, about the changes they've seen come over the parish
since they were at school.
I got the distinct impression that whether "sib-friend" or not,
no one has ever been made unwelcome in the Grant household. In fact,
Liam and Delia took time to bemoan the fact that one of the many changes
to our lifestyle was the introduction of radio and TV , which they
believe has put paid to the honoured tradition of "ceilidh"ing.
Add to this the laying of carpets all over people's houses these days
and "that finished it off all together! You couldn't go into houses
that'd carpets in them unless in your stocking soles! Carpets on the
floor couldn't be kept in a country house!"
"They were far better times" , Liam says, "Everybody
went to ceilidh. If you went to one house the night, then you went
to another house another night and maybe you'd be trembling with fear
to come home because they'd be telling ghost stories. People are terrible
far advanced compared to that these days."
Liam is adamant that we have also advanced far beyond
the kind of schooling he received back then, which he remembers not
all that fondly, in spite of the great learning of the masters. What
with the long walk there, the perishing cold and the temperament of
the master to contend with, it seems schooling sixty years ago was
a bit of an ordeal. By all accounts the teachers were often disposed
to meting out very severe punishments for some thing as sometimes
unavoidable as not understanding your lesson. Liam remembers with
a shudder -and yet with surprising good humour -the times he was hit
so hard he was knocked unconscious.
The stories about going to school in the bare feet
are familiar to most us by now, but Liam manages to bring the whole
scenario alive to my imagination like never before with some of the
more specific details.
"The people round here started school at 6 or 7 years,
but the people from Cluainte, Mindoran or Gortfad would start later,
say at 9, because they had to walk and it was a wil' distance. They
had to be hardier. Everyone was in the bare feet. You didn't put on
shoes 'til you absolutely had to. There were no tarred roads so your
feet were really hard. You could run along on the stones like anything
and many's the time your big toe would be cut. I could go out there
ye through the street in the bare feet!" I didn't doubt him. But the
children didn't always have to walk, it seems. 